It is true that the life of a single person living in this world, or if a human society is able to experience and learn all the necessary answers to life, the life span of humans is insufficient.
Life ends when you experience and live and learn in every subject.
Thus, it is only when a society or an individual learns to learn the experience of the lives of the people or human societies who lived before him he will be able to attain success in life.
In this respect, there are many important key lessons that our society needs to educate themselves in the case of girls who disappeared a few days ago and returned home.
These things did not happen in our family, and we can easily choose to ignore such situations. But we ought to learn a long lesson on the situation instead of dusting our hands away from it without thinking.
Therefore we are obliged to understand in depth about the cause of the incident.
“Young women are imprisoned.” It was able to observe that a few media platforms used this statement to stab Muslims with along with mentioning that they were not being given their rights.
Moreover, these incidents are an opportunity for some anti-Muslim elements who are criticizing the Muslim community to avenge themselves and providing to save records for the future reference, so that this incident may be presented by conspiratorial forces as a violation of women's rights in the Muslim community in the future.
We have to look into such accusations from the limits of religion and on the basis of it.
First, this incident shows us the cracks in the intimate relationships between children and parents.
We need to ensure to maintain a close relationship with children and concentrate on their activities, thinking, and attitudes. It is the duty of parents to monitor who they are friends with and who they are dealing with and to give them advice and consultation accordingly.
If they have different thoughts regarding our thoughts and the way we follow them direction could be made accordingly, they should be given the necessary advice and disciplined on the right path. For such a guidance, there has to first be affection expressed for them, closeness and understanding.
A close relationship with children is essential to know and fulfill their desires, and understand their thoughts.
Moreover, if such thoughts and desires do not go along with the religion and the women's society, it is important that close relationships with them are utilized to explain their misleading directions and put them on the right path.
In the majority of families, there is a significant distance in relationships between parents and children. Parent-child relationships are not close enough for parents to understand the needs, wants, thoughts and the behavior of children. This deficiency is more common in our society compared to other communities in Sri Lanka.
A main cause of this could be since parents are not aware. Such situations also arise when the parents or children are workaholics and they do not get time to spend with each other.
Therefore, the mental impact of these situations can be the cause of such unfortunate events.
Therefore, when taking up our religious duties, one of our utmost important duties is to spend time with our family, children in our lifetime, and to fulfill their needs and desires.
Moreover, due to their age phases, the manifestations of the scientific development of time, it is natural for modern culturally diverse ideas to be generated. We should be interested in knowing this situation and giving them appropriate advice and guiding them.
We need to keep in mind that we are leaving out a religious obligation if we do not ensure to protect and guide our children by making use of the relationship.
In the past, by the grace of Allah, the children were safely home without any obstacles or danger.
Therefore, without any further incidents like this, we need to be monitoring our children and it is our duty to protect them from the dangers to our children and society
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